|Fair is fine as long as we're just going for a ride|
Many of us hold fairness in high esteem.
But what does "fairness" look like?
Fairness frequently means that everyone gets treated exactly the same. Equal pay. Equal portions. Equal time and attention.
In a fair world we are judged on our merits. This can be a motivating force. Work hard and, in a fair world, you will be rewarded. Treat people fairly and, in a fair world, you will be respected.
You could make an argument that fairness makes the world go around.
But fairness can also become oppressive.
Out of a desire for fairness, we race to the bottom. We refuse to do good because we can't do it for everyone. We treat everyone fairly, but no one well.
And, out of a desire for fairness, we focus on our rights, what we deserve and want, what we've earned and what everyone else is getting. This focus blinds us to what we have, robs us of gratitude.
And, out of a desire for fairness, we ignore people's differences. We miss out on the good and beautiful gifts diverse communities have to offer. We treat everyone fairly, but long for something more.
We all, secretly, when pushed, desire more than fair treatment. Friendship. Love. Grace. These are all unfair ... and beautiful.
Instead of fairness, we should pursue generosity, goodness, godliness and gratitude. After all, isn't this what God, through Christ, has given us?
Where have you seen fairness fail to satisfy?
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